Mixed Signals, Queer Edition: Is It Flirting or Just Community?
Duration ~34 minutes · Included in your membership
Rebuilding ‘mixed signals’ advice from scratch for queer daters, not straight scripts with rainbow stickers
You’re queer, you’re dating, and the signals are… a mess. Are they flirting, just being friendly, trauma-bonding, or networking for their next house share? Most dating advice says things like “if he pays the bill, he’s into you,” or “if she texts first, she wants more.” But what if no one’s a ‘he’ or ‘she’ in this situation? What if you split the bill, send memes to all your friends, and cuddle on the couch with people you’re not even dating? This episode is for queer singles who are exhausted by translating…
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