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The No‑Going‑Back Plan: Turning Your Love Life Into a Non‑Negotiable Contract
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The No‑Going‑Back Plan: Turning Your Love Life Into a Non‑Negotiable Contract

Duration ~34 minutes · Included in your membership

How high‑achieving women can stop self‑betrayal in on‑again off‑again relationships using the tools they already use at work.

Episode at a glance
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Key question
If you’re powerful everywhere except in your love life, this podcast helps you close the gap using tools you already use at work.
The problem
I can negotiate six‑figure deals but somehow I can’t say no when he texts ‘I miss you’ at 2 a.m.
What you'll get
Build a ‘no‑going‑back’ plan that makes it logistically and emotionally hard to slide back into the same cycle.
Description

You can negotiate six‑figure deals, manage teams, and rescue broken projects. But when his name lights up your phone at 2 a.m. with “I miss you,” your boundaries evaporate. You promise yourself it’s the last time. Then you’re back in the same on‑again off‑again cycle, feeling like the most powerful version of you vanishes the second he texts. This episode is your playbook for building a **no‑going‑back plan**—something more solid than “I really should stop.” We borrow from contract negotiation, risk management,…

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on-off relationshipbreaking the cycleboundariesself-betrayalno contact plan
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