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Late Bloomer Playbook: Week 1 Social Missions for Men
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Late Bloomer Playbook: Week 1 Social Missions for Men

Duration ~32 minutes · Included in your membership

From isolated and overthinking to real reps in dating and friendships

Episode at a glance
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Key question
Guests get one social ‘mission’ per week—start a conversation, ask someone out, host something—and then debrief the cringe and wins in raw detail.
The problem
I feel like everyone else learned how to date, flirt, and make friends in their early 20s and I somehow missed that class; now I’m behind and embarrassed to even try.
What you'll get
Help you go from isolated and second‑guessing everything to having a small, real social and dating life within 3–6 months.
Description

If you’re a man in your late 20s, 30s, or even 40s and you quietly feel like you missed the class on dating, flirting, and making friends, this episode is built for you. Not in a cheesy "just be confident" way, and not in a loud fake-alpha way—but in a practical, gym-style training plan for your social life. You might recognize yourself here: You’re smart, decent, maybe doing fine at work. But when it comes to women, friendships, or just having people to text on a Friday, it feels like you’re years behind. You…

Topics
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late bloomer datingsocial anxietybuilding friendshipsrejectionmasculinity
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